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Being a School Dad!
by Suzy Yehl Marta

Kids are now back in the groove of school. Undoubtedly, they have their circle of friends, they know which subjects they like and the ones they are struggling with, they have decided which extra-curricular activities to participate in, and are even looking forward to the holiday breaks that are right around the corner.

Where do you fit in your child’s school community? For our children, school is where they spend most of their awake time each day. Their teachers, their classmates, their activities mean the world to them. As with anything, some days are fantastic and some days are bummers. And this is the very reason we, as their parent need to be involved in their school world too. For no other reason than to guide and support them.

All too often, as single dads, you might feel awkward or unwelcome. Perhaps, your child’s Mom tries to keep you away, or you believe the school is her domain with the kids. It is important for you to realize that your child wants and needs you too. Get involved. Do it for child, if for no other reason than they deserve to know you care! It will help them succeed too!

School Checklist

• Attend Parent- Teacher Conferences
• Call nightly to find out how your child’s day went
• Ask the school to send you the calendar of events
• When you are having parenting time, help with homework
• Volunteer with one of the activities, such as a field trip or sports team
• Ask the teacher to mail you your child’s report card
• Get to know your child’s friends – take them for pizza
• Display their school picture on your refrigerator
• Find out their favorite subject so you can find interesting information about to share with them

Okay, you have your homework assignments. If you complete them on time, I promise you will have an A+ in fatherhood...